When adults meet new people, conversations often begin with an introduction, followed by a question, such as, “Where are you from?” or “What do you do?” For high school students, introductions often include, “What year are you?” or “What activities are you involved in?” Those questions reflect some of the factors that tend to define us at various points in life. However, the answer to the question of “Who am I and where do I belong?” is deeper than it seems at the surface.
At Concordia, a person’s roots can run deep. As Cadets get acquainted, the phrases “My parents went here,” “My older siblings went here,” or even “My grandparents went here” often enter the conversation. Those legacy connections are special and worth celebrating! However, the depth of those connections can be challenging for families who are new to Concordia. It may feel like “everyone else” has been here forever. Sometimes introductory conversations revolve around activities to try to establish a mutual connection. A new student, however, may not have found a group yet or even know how to get involved.
Perhaps, to be truly welcoming, we need to take a step back and realize that our roots run even deeper. Our activities, our professions, and our families are all special to us. If, however, like Job, all of those things are stripped away, what is there? Is our identity gone? No. Our true identity runs much deeper than our talents, our genes, or even the number of family generations cheering for the Cadets. Our true identity is that each person is a dearly loved child of God, redeemed by Jesus Christ and sanctified by the Holy Spirit. We are all united in the family of God!
So, when you see someone you don’t recognize in the halls of Concordia and you find out that they just joined the Concordia family, give them a warm welcome. Offer to help navigate the building, FACTS, what all of those strange titles for rooms mean, or why the mascot name is pronounced two different ways. Cheer for the teams or groups you are connected to–and for all of the teams and groups that bear the Concordia name. Appreciate the differences that contribute to the richness of our community. Celebrate the variety of our gifts and talents. Recognize the value of each person. The word “concordia” means “with one heart.” Whether a Cadet for two days or ninety years, let’s welcome everyone to the family table—a place we all truly belong.